Aurat yeh ummeed karti hai ki shadi ke baad mard badal jayenge par woh nahi badalte; mard yeh chahte hain ki aurate na badlein par woh badal jaati hain.

Women hope men will change after marriage but they don’t; men hope women won’t change but they do.

Women hope men will change after marriage but they don’t; men hope women won’t change but they do.

Achhe pati sab samajhte hain aur madad ki peshkash karte hain. “Tumhe bas kehna hai,” woh kehte hain. Par madad karne wale patiyon ko bhi dhanyawad chahiye hota hai, unke yogdaan ki sarahana honi chahiye, unhe credit milna chahiye. Woh saare ‘please’ aur ‘thank you’. Kritagya hona waqt aur urja leta hai. Aksar khud hi kaam kar lena aasaan lagta hai.

The good husbands understand and offer to help. “All you have to do is ask” they say. But even helpful husbands have to be thanked, their contributions acknowledged, credit given. All those pleases and thank yous. Being grateful takes time and energy. It’s often easier to do it yourself.

The good husbands understand and offer to help. “All you have to do is ask” they say. But even helpful husbands have to be thanked, their contributions acknowledged, credit given. All those pleases and thank yous. Being grateful takes time and energy. It’s often easier to do it yourself.